Alan Bissett, a renowned author and playwright, has recently been recognized with a School Library Association Award for his book, Lads: A Guide to Consent and Respect. His work has taken him to schools across Scotland and the UK to engage in important conversations about masculinity, boundaries, and consent.
Bissett, who has been visiting schools for over 25 years, acknowledges that the nature of his visits has evolved over time. With the release of his book, he has been increasingly called upon to address issues related to manhood and the changing attitudes among young men and boys.
During his visits, Bissett has observed a concerning trend of increasing levels of misogyny and sexism, particularly among young males. Schools from all backgrounds have reported struggles with boys’ behavior towards female staff and fellow students. This shift in attitudes has prompted discussions on the factors contributing to this change.
Various reasons have been cited for the shift, including the impact of lockdown, exposure to pornography and online influencers, socioeconomic conditions, and the rise of resistance against progress on equality and minority rights. Bissett emphasizes the role of social media in shaping attitudes and behaviors among young people.
In his interactions with students, Bissett aims to challenge harmful stereotypes and encourage positive role modeling. He believes that engaging boys in conversations about masculinity and emotional expression can lead to a more empathetic and supportive culture. By empowering young men to take responsibility and become positive influences, Bissett hopes to inspire meaningful change in attitudes towards gender and respect.
Despite facing resistance and skepticism during his school visits, Bissett remains committed to fostering a culture of understanding and empathy among young people. He encourages individuals to consider how they can contribute to creating a more inclusive and respectful society.
In addition to his school visits, Bissett is involved in initiatives to provide disadvantaged children with books for Christmas through the Scottish Book Trust. Donations to this cause help bring joy and comfort to families in need during the festive season.
Overall, Bissett’s work highlights the importance of addressing toxic masculinity, promoting consent and respect, and empowering young men to become positive agents of change in their communities. By engaging in open and honest conversations about gender roles and societal expectations, we can work towards a more equitable and compassionate future for all.